it annoys me how my infinite scrolling frequently just repeats itself over and over. i’ve noticed when i scroll very slowly it does it a lot less. is there a fix for this at all?

I feel like I will never be satisfied with myself or any man, long term. I'm so afraid that my looks will fade and I will wither into something nobody wants. I want men to desire me and want me forever, even when they shouldn't. I'm horrible and shallow.

seek out new surroundings, people and experiences that will help you grow as a person, alter your perspective and shed these negative mental traps. i can’t say anything more than this, because to live a life like that will never be a true or happy one. 

I know I'm a "great guy" but I knowingly am trying hard to be with someone who doesn't acknowledge it out of fear of their own failure and it is killing me.

stick firmly to your own standards, be kind and understanding, understand that labels and limits placed on relationships with others are very confining, subjective and abstract. true connections and love transcend the corrupt and ephemeral shapes we try to squeeze them into. if you can understand this, and avoid selfish wants to possess or receive at your convenience, you can approach this person with a better realization that your love and dedication, your empathy and nearness will be received by her/him in a pure way, and no matter what her/his reaction is in the short term, your genuine human connection will be unforgettable and irreplaceable.